sad things happen to people. they're inevitable. so no one really is to blame. not the lord and not even the self. sometimes, it is easy to say that it's the fault of the person. but if you think about it more, it's really not. what's sad is, there are things that you don't want to do but you have to do. in this world, expectations are overpowering. some people would say that you can ignore those expectations because they are truly stupid. they are right. but you can't ignore them all the time. maybe once in a while you can, and should. but not all the time. that's just how it is. or else, you'd be alone and feel lousy. sacrifices are to be made everyday to be happy or to live harmoniously with other people. these things are very sad and shitty. but there's no point in saying that. because they happen everyday and as long as you live. you can curse every minute, but that won't change anything. this is a crazy world. and we are all so pathetic it makes me laugh.